Reading Force, the shared reading charity for serving and veteran military families, is promoting the importance of male reading role models in the face of a current youth crisis, embodied by pervasive toxic masculinity and parental exclusion from children and young adults’ online life. Whether a father, stepfather, grandfather, uncle, or brother reading to a child or young person – the impact can be profound.
In today’s Britain, parents and carers routinely report they are not sure what content their children are viewing online. Worse, in the small number of cases where tragedy has occurred, such as suicide or a viral challenge gone wrong, parents report they thought they were simply playing games online with friends.
Reading Force was founded fourteen years ago, in Aldershot, with the fundamental aim of improving communication within Forces families, whether separated by deployments, or at home together, to keep families on the same page. Frequent moves of home and school and long separations from a serving parent, can take a toll on children in the military community. Reading Force discovered if families were supported to share the same book – even while apart – having common ground to talk about usually led them to talk about other things.
Author and patron of Reading Force, Sir Michael Morpurgo, says:
“It’s why Reading Force is so important. There’s an enormous benefit for children when their families enjoys reading stories. Children find it really hard to say goodbye to mum or dad. So I think that’s an important thing about a story too, it is reassuring.”
Compounding the stresses of military life on families and children is the current unregulated climate of social media, often fuelling children and young people’s anxiety. Notable too is the plummeting number of children reading for pleasure* (the greatest decline here is for boys). Reading Force support parents – and particularly fathers and stepfathers – to read with the children and young people in their lives, and in turn increase overall communication for a stronger connection.
Award-winning author and Reading Force patron, Tom Palmer reflects on his role as a father:
“As a dad I read a lot with my daughter. Yes, it helped get her into reading, but, to be honest, that wasn’t the important thing. The important thing was that it was a great way of us talking to each other, her learning about the world from a book and from me, but me learning about her too. She’s 21 now and we don’t read together, but we do talk a lot. We have a big challenge going on at home now and I think one of the things that helps us cope with it is that we can talk to each other. Not always, but always when we need to. Looking back, I think reading together when she was age zero to about eleven is the foundation stone to what we’re like as father and daughter now.”
Sharing books brings family members closer together and improves communication. Keeping fathers, grandfathers, uncles, and brothers in children’s lives. Strengthening connections within families has always been the charity’s priority and is arguably now more important than ever.
In the charity’s latest survey 87% of participants said taking part in Reading Force had helped them connect more with a father or stepfather.
“My children absolutely love having books chosen for them by Reading Force, especially when Daddy is deployed as they love to tell him about the stories while he is away. Excellent quality books that facilitate special time together.”
As a charity Reading Force relies on funding to deliver its service and welcomes public donations:
£5 allows us to send a book to a family
£10 to send a reading pack with book and resources to a family
For information about Reading Force and how they support serving and ex-serving families: www.readingforce.org.uk
*See the Lost Boys: State of the Nation, The Centre for Social Justice, March 2025
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